How to Feel Relaxed Before Your Family Photoshoot

A gentle guide from your Suffolk family photographer

Let’s be honest—family photos can stir up a mix of excitement and nerves. Maybe you’re wondering if the kids will cooperate, if your outfit choices will work, or if you’ll feel awkward in front of the camera. It’s okay. I get it.

As a family photographer here in beautiful Suffolk, I’ve had the joy of working with so many lovely families—each with their own quirks, giggles, and lovable chaos. And I promise you this: the magic happens not in perfection, but in the real, everyday moments you share.

So, if you're feeling a bit nervous, take a breath. You’re not alone. Here are three heartfelt tips to help you (and your little crew) feel relaxed and present before your session:

1. Create a Little Pre-Session Joy With Music

On the drive to your session, pop on your family’s favourite playlist. Whether it’s gentle lullabies, fun pop anthems, or those sweet songs that always spark a sing-along, music has a way of melting away tension and bringing out those happy, connected vibes.

2. Embrace the Giggles—Yes, Even Tickle Fights!

Laughter is the secret ingredient to beautifully natural photos. Don’t be afraid to be playful. A tickle fight on the grass, a shared joke, a whispered secret—they’re the little moments that make your family yours. These in-between, real-life memories are exactly what I love to capture.

3. Take a Deep Breath—Just Love on Your People

You don’t need to pose. You don’t need to “get it right.” You just need to be together. Cuddle up. Hold hands. Explore. Let the light hit your laughter and the wind catch your hair. I’ll take care of the rest—guiding gently, watching quietly, capturing the beauty that’s already there.

Your Story Is Already Beautiful

You don’t need a perfect day or perfect outfits—you just need each other. Your family, just as you are, is more than enough.

If you're dreaming of a session that feels warm, easy, and a little bit magical—filled with connection, cuddles, and laughter—I’d love to create something special with you.

Ready to book your family session?
Click here to send me an email and let’s start planning your cozy, joy-filled photoshoot. I can’t wait to meet you and your wonderful family.